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They're extremely important keys to master. If you can master these five rules, you'll find yourself getting much more positive male attention:

1. Rule #1: You don't need him (Jual Mahal).
Desperation is the single biggest turn-off for men. You know howyou react when a guy acts desperate to get a girl, ANY girl. Youprobably think he's pretty pathetic, right? Unfortunately, eventhough we can see desperation easily in others, it's a bit harderto see in ourselves.
One of the biggest traps women make for themselves is vowing thatthey'll be married or have kids by a certain age. As they approachthat age, they start feeling more and more anxious. They'll dateguys that previously they wouldn't have even considered as marriagematerial, simply because they want ANY man. Some men even avoiddating women in their thirties because of the perception that thesewomen must hearing the ticking of their biological clock!
Whatever age you are, make sure he knows that you're not an easyscore. You're an independent women with discerning tastes, andyou'll pick the guy who is right for you rather than the first guywho asks you out. It is extremely important for a man to know thatyou are with him because you want to be with him--not because youneed any red-blooded male that fits the bill.
Many women think that their lives won't be complete without men.They need men to keep from being alone. This is a form ofemotional neediness that is extremely damaging. Men don't want tobe women's heroes; they want to be accepted for who they are. As aresult, men prefer women who are content and happy whether or notthey're with someone. These women will complement a man's liferather than create extra emotional burdens.
A final word on neediness. There's a huge difference between awoman who needs a man in a way that makes him feel more manly (suchas needing him for sex or to change a lightbulb) and a woman whoneeds a man emotionally or to father her children. Men DO appreciateit when women admit how much they need his strong arms,capable hands, and remote-control expertise.

2. Rule #2: Keep your standards high.
Men distinguish pretty harshly between women who are classy andwomen who aren't. Although it may be tempting to say "yes" to thefirst guy who asks you out, you should set down certain criteriafor yourself that must be met before you'll go out with a guy. Asample criteria list might include the following:
- Opens doors for me. - Pays for meals. - Treats me with respect. - Doesn't curse in my presence. - Never makes lewd or obscene jokes. - Does not touch me inappropriately.
If you enforce those rules by telling a guy to clean up his mouthor he'll be talking to your hot ass as you're walking away, he'llrespect you for it. If you accept being treated like a doormat, hewon't respect you. He won't respect you if you try to act like oneof the guys, a good-time girl, or so laid-back that he can runright over you. He wants to treat you like a lady, so give him theopportunity.

3. Rule #3: Make a man feel good about himself.
Guys love being around women who make them feel good. These womenadmire their man's competence, look good on his arm, and make surethat his friends are envious. They save their praise for themoments when it really matters, realize that their appearancereflects on their man's status, and give him reasons to boast whenhe's around his buddies.
If you follow Rule #2, you will always date men who meet your standards. You should always admire and respect the men you date(if you don't, you may be guilty of NOT following Rule #1--in otherwords, dating a guy you don't really like because you're afraid ofbeing alone!). So, this rule should be easy to follow!
When a woman admires a man, it shows. She brags about him to herfriends, never says negative things about him in public, and gazesproudly at him as he explains his latest accomplishment. She wantsto touch him, wants to hear what he's doing, and wants to look herbest for him. Yet she also preserves her independence and thosequalities that make her unique.
Just remember: there's a difference between a proud woman on aman's arm and a puppydog who gazes adoringly up at a man. Don't bethe latter.

4. Rule #4: Believe you're irresistibly sexy.
This is the second most important technique that you can use tobecome irresistibly attractive to men. You may think that sexywomen have perfect figures, designer clothes, and expensive makeup. Although it is true that these things help, you can become sexyjust as you are. All you have to do is think sexy.
That's right. Think sexy, talk sexy, read sexy, visualize sexy.Get in touch with your inner sex goddess or red-hot vixen. Pamperyourself with sensual fabrics, fragrances, and foods. Buy someerotic books, videos, lingerie, or toys. Imagine that hot guy infront of you on the bus naked, or browse a calendar of hunkypin-ups. Make exploring your own sensuality a priority. And theresults will amaze you.
The more you get in touch with your sexy, sensual side, the moreyou will emit sexy vibes. You'll more comfortable with expressingyour sexuality and lose inhibitions. Nothing is sexier than awoman who is in touch with her own sexual gifts. As a result, menwill be instinctively attracted to you and not know why. The bestpart is: even the most plain-looking woman can become a sex vixenusing this technique!

5. Rule #5: Be approachable.
This is the Number One rule for attracting men. Seem too easy?Let me ask you: what is the Number One thing that keeps men backfrom approaching women? The answer is simple: fear of rejection.Being approachable show a man in every way possible that you aren'tgoing to reject him out of hand. This means that out of all thewomen in the room, you're the one he's going to approach!
To be approachable, it's actually BEST if you're not devastatinglybeautiful. Extremely beautiful women may be visually admired byevery guy in the room, but few men have the courage to approach awoman who looks like a model simply because they're sure that theywill be rejected. Good-looking girls who don't look intimidatinghave a much greater chance of being approached.
A woman who is approachable is relaxed. She's not in a hurry,she's having a good time, and her body language is open. She maybe smiling or looking around, open to catching someone's eye. Shelooks friendly and fun. If a guy catches her eye or gives her asmile, she smiles back. If he starts a conversation, she repliesgamely. She makes it easy for the guy in every way, and as aresult he's not simply grateful--he's interested in knowing moreabout her.
You'll learn even more about attracting men in my book, theSeduction Genie. You'll learn what colors attract men, why wearingskirts is so important, and exactly what you can do to maximizeyour chances of being approached by a man. You'll learn the bestways to start a conversation with a man, the danger of playing hardto get, and why a guy will want to see you again.